I write about love, friends and family, romance and such because these things are important to me. Family is essential but so is your mate. People have wondered if I would be able to withstand some of the things that have come my way lately—sometimes I do too 🙂 but the following is about the women in my family.
- My paternal grandmother died at 60 years of age. She had been divorced from when she was about 34 years of age—never remarried. She loved my granddaddy until the day she died but when they were married, he liked going out carousing and drinking a bit too much.
- My maternal grandmother also was divorced but not until she was about 54 years of age. He ran off with a woman, yada, yada… I know how that goes (eye roll). She lived to be 88 years of age and never remarried.
- My mother died at 60 years of age and was widowed when she was 48. She never remarried.
- Then there was my great-grandmother on my mom’s side. I remember her quite well. She died at 84 but was widowed at 39. She also did not remarry.
These women withstood all types of hardships and heartache, and they made huge sacrifices. They were strong. They never remarried and I am told they never fell in love or had a relationship with another man again. Very sad but romance isn’t everything. When I was young I wanted to be just like my maternal grandmother – the part where she was strong and independent. I later learned she was vengeful toward all men and I did not want any part of that. I still try to be strong and independent but I don’t want to lose the hope of falling in love again. 😀 The odds are not on my side. Someone said the other day I was too old–what? Hmm… I guess maybe that could be true but I don’t like it when people tell me I can’t do something.
Each woman had problems along the way and had very little help to get through. As for both of my grandmothers…what do I say? The girls and I are all there is to keep their legacy going. It is really tough being an only child of two only children but as women of my family on both sides of the tree, we are strong and we keep going. 🙂
Happy Gardening! 😀
Happy Birthday, MOM! 😀
Too old? Never! You never know when you might meet the real love of your life.
Lillian
I like how you think! 😀 Maybe…I think one is never too old to find love! Have a great weekend and take care! 😀
Keep your heart young, your spirit alive, and your faith active – and romance will never be far from you. Everybody loves a cheerful giver. This is your time to give the love you have been given – give it away! It will come back multiplied. That’s how it works. God bless you! 🙂
Thanks. And it does. I’m living that and it is so exciting plus romance on top of it… 😀 . I’m telling you, this is better than the movies. Take care and God bless you and yours! 😀
Never too old for love! I am an only child also and I know what you mean!
I don’t think one gets too old either. Being an only child makes for some difficult times but you know that far better than me. Please take care and be blessed always! 😀