If my dad were alive he would be 83 today but he died back in 1981 which at the time he was my age now — actually several months younger. His first cousin called me yesterday. She shares his birthday. I planned to see her for the holidays but didn’t make it to Savannah so we will visit her later this month as we make the rounds.
If there is one thing about my dad that I remember, it is that people respected him. That says so much about a person. We may never know how much respect we actually have until we pass away. Some people considered him a saint and others knew that they could count on him no matter what—even people he did not know. Not such a bad legacy to leave, I would say.
My dad (and mom) had hearts of gold. They genuinely cared for others. When times were rough for others, they were there to help no matter how bad they had it themselves. I saw my father cry when a guy tried to kill himself by setting himself on fire. I saw him smile at the smallest things that cheered his heart. I remember his strong arm of discipline which at the time I thought he enjoyed but deep down he hated. Later, I understood that he had to correct my behavior.
I have missed my dad for so long and would not allow myself to grieve until my mother passed away in 1993. My dad shaped the way I think. He molded the way I try to treat others and the way I see things. My dad was my biggest fan who prayed for me, prayed with me, and protected me. I have been lost without him. I don’t know what my dad would say about me today. I have made so many mistakes but I have always tried to make him proud in some way.
As for my tattoo… Daddy would have frowned on it but I would like to think he would have understood from what all I have had to go through.
Daddy, Happy Birthday!!! You are still my fan and I miss you so much!
Happy Gardening 😀 !
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Happy birthday to your dad! It is the perfect to remember him in your heart. I lost my dad many years ago too. He will always be close in your heart.
May your new year be joy-filled and creative Amy!
Hugs from Holland ~
Heidi
Thank you, Heidi and you are right–he will always be close in my heart just where he should be. I am aiming for a very joyful year (plus creative 🙂 ). I am looking forward to seeing all of the projects you will be doing. Please take care of yourself and may your year be filled with more energy and less pain!
Oh my, I need a Kleenex!!!! It sounds like your Dad was a very special man and it sounds like he left some good memories for you to cherish in your heart!!!! I loved the photo!!! I bet you can still feel the moisture in the soil, smell the freshness in the air, and sense the softness of your Fathers touch…. Take Care and God Bless 🙂 Kenny T
Thanks, Kenny. Me, too — 😀 . I actually can recall those things and I remember him like it was yesterday doing so much as his helper. He taught me well. He loved me so much but he loved everyone, too. That is what I carry with me. Take care and I hope your week is so very blessed! 😀
Wonderful memories to hold in your heart…
Hi, Roberta! Yes…so many good memories that I will always cherish. Hope your New Year is off to a great start!!!! 😀 Take care!
I love the picture – you can tell how close you two were just looking at it.
Lillian
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I agree, Lillian. He was so proud of me. Take care!